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Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) Policy_

  Relationships, Sex and Health Education Policy

linked to personal, social, health and  economic education

(RSE and PSHE)

          September 2023 - September 2026

Agreed: October 2023

Review Date: October 2026

Chair of Governors: Mrs C Sellers

Headteacher: Mrs L Wilmer


Content:

2. Aims

3. Statutory Requirements

3. Policy Development

3. Definition

4. Curriculum

5. Delivery of RSE

6. Roles and responsibilities

6. Parents’ right to withdraw

7. Training

7. Monitoring arrangements

7. Linked policies

Appendix 1: Scheme of Work

Appendix 2: By the end of primary school a pupil should know

Appendix 3: Parent form: withdrawal from sex education within RSE

1. Aims

Co-op Academy Friarswood considers that Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) is an  integral part of the Personal, Social, Health and Economic (PSHE) Education and Citizenship  curriculum, and is linked to the Science curriculum. We aim to offer pupils a carefully planned  programme on human development, relationships and family life within a safe, comfortable  atmosphere with a trusting relationship between teachers and pupils. The programme is set  within a moral framework and it is carefully matched to the children’s level of maturity.

The aims of relationships and sex education (RSE) at our school are to:

Provide a framework in which sensitive discussions can take place;
● Prepare pupils for puberty, and give them an understanding of sexual development and  the importance of health and hygiene;

● Help pupils develop feelings of self-respect, confidence and empathy;
● Create a positive culture around issues of sexuality and relationships;
● Teach pupils the correct vocabulary to describe themselves and their bodies.

The following aims compliment those of the Science curriculum in both key stage 1 and 2 along with supporting the Early Years Curriculum:

● To have the confidence and self-esteem to value themselves and others;
● To understand about the range of relationships, including the importance of family for the  care and support of children;

● To develop confidence in talking, listening and thinking about feelings and relationships;
● To be able to use the correct scientific vocabulary to name parts of the body and  describe how their bodies work;

● To be prepared for puberty;

● To understand the consequences of their actions and to behave responsibly within  relationships;

● To be able to recognise unsafe situations and be able to protect themselves and ask for  help and support;

● To understand the role which the media plays in forming attitudes;
● To understand how safe routines can reduce the spread of viruses.

RSE will contribute to promoting the spiritual, moral, cultural, mental and physical development  of children at school and within their community, thus preparing them for the responsibilities and  experiences of adult life. We will work towards this aim in partnership with parents / carers.

2. Statutory requirements

As a primary academy school we must provide relationships education to all pupils as per  section 34 of the Children and Social work act 2017. 

We do not have to follow the National Curriculum but we are expected to offer all pupils a  curriculum that is similar to the National Curriculum including requirements to teach science  which would include the elements of sex education contained in the science curriculum.

In teaching RSE, we are required by our funding agreements to have regard to guidance issued  by the secretary of state as outlined in section 403 of the Education Act 1996.

At Co-op Academy Friarswood, we teach RSHE as set out in this policy.

3. Policy Development

This policy has been developed in consultation with staff, pupils, governors and parents. The  consultation and policy development process involves the following steps:

1. Review – the SLT (senior leadership team) pulled together all relevant information including  relevant national and local guidance;

2. Staff consultation – all school staff were given the opportunity to look at the policy and make  recommendations;

3. Parent/stakeholder consultation – parents and any interested parties will be invited to read  through the policy and other documents and make comments via email;

4. Pupil consultation – we will investigate what exactly pupils want from their RSE;

5. Ratification – once amendments are made, the policy will be shared with governors and  ratified.

4. Definition

RSHE is about the emotional, social and cultural development of pupils, and involves learning  about relationships, healthy lifestyles, diversity and personal identity.

RSHE involves a combination of sharing information, and exploring issues and values. RSHE is not about the promotion of sexual activity.

5. Curriculum

Our curriculum is set out as per Appendix 1 but we may need to adapt it as and when  necessary.

We have developed the curriculum in consultation with parents, pupils and staff, taking into  account the age, needs and feelings of pupils. If pupils ask questions outside the scope of this  policy, teachers will respond in an appropriate manner so they are fully informed and don’t seek  answers online.

We teach RSHE through different aspects of the curriculum and carry out the main RSHE teaching  in our PSHE curriculum. We also teach RSHE through other subject areas (e.g. Science, P.E.  and R.E.), where we feel that they contribute significantly to a child’s knowledge and  understanding of his or her own body, and how it is changing and developing. Linked with R.E.,  children reflect on family relationships, different family groups and friendship. They learn about  rituals and traditions associated with birth, marriage and death and talk about the emotions  involved.

Links to the Science curriculum:

EYFS:

Early Years Foundation Stage children learn about life cycles. Through on-going personal,  social and emotional development they develop the skills to form relationships and think about  relationships with others.

Key Stage 1

In Key stage 1 children learn:

● That animals, including humans, move, feed, grow and use their senses and reproduce;
● To recognise and compare the main external parts of the bodies of humans;
● That humans and animals can reproduce offspring and these grow into adults;
● To recognise similarities and differences between themselves and others;
● To treat others with sensitivity.

Children should be introduced, at appropriate stages, to the correct terminology in their  programme of RSHE. It is important that acceptable and unacceptable terminology is clarified.  Therefore, correct biological terms will be used at all times for teaching.

Key Stage 2

In Key Stage 2 children learn:

● That the life processes common to humans and other animals including nutrition, growth  and reproduction;

● About the main stages of the human life cycle: How a baby is conceived and born (Year  6);

● In Year 4, 5 and 6 we place a particular emphasis on RSHE, as many children experience  puberty at this age. We teach the children about the parts of the body and how they work. We  also explain what will happen to their bodies during puberty. We encourage the children to ask  for help if they need it and there are opportunities for single sex question sessions. Teachers do  

their best to answer all questions with sensitivity and care.  

● By the end of Key Stage 2, we ensure that both boys and girls know how babies are  born, how their bodies change during puberty, what menstruation is, and how it affects women.  We always teach these with due regard for the emotional development of the children.

Special Educational Needs

Children with special educational needs will be given the opportunity to fully participate in RSHE  lessons, and a differentiated programme will be provided where necessary, to ensure that all  children gain a full understanding.

For more information about our curriculum, see our curriculum map in Appendix 1 6. Delivery of RSE (relationships and sex education)

RSE is taught within the personal, social, health and economic (PSHE) education curriculum.  Biological aspects of RSE are taught within the science curriculum, and other aspects are  included in religious education (RE).

Pupils also receive stand-alone sex education sessions delivered by the class teacher or by a trained health professional.

Relationships education focuses on teaching the fundamental building blocks and  characteristics of positive relationships including:

 Families and people who care for me;

 Caring friendships;

 Respectful relationships;

 Online relationships;

 Being safe.

For more information about our RSE curriculum, see Appendices 1 and 2.

These areas of learning are taught within the context of family life taking care to ensure that  there is no stigmatisation of children based on their home circumstances (families can include  single parent families, LGBTQ+ parents, families headed by grandparents, adoptive parents,  foster parents/carers amongst other structures) along with reflecting sensitively that some  children may have a different structure of support around them (for example: looked after  children or young carers).

7. Roles and responsibilities

7.1 The governing board

The governing board will approve the RSHE policy, and hold the PSHE/RSE lead to account for  its implementation.

7.2 The Head Teacher

The headteacher is responsible for ensuring that RSHE is taught consistently across the school,  and for managing requests to withdraw pupils from [non-statutory/non-science] components of  RSE (see section 8).

7.3 Staff

Staff are responsible for:

 Delivering RSE in a sensitive way;

 Modelling positive attitudes to RSE;

 Monitoring progress;

 Responding to the needs of individual pupils

 Responding appropriately to pupils whose parents wish them to be withdrawn from the  [non-statutory/non-science] components of RSE

Staff do not have the right to opt out of teaching RSHE. Staff who have concerns about teaching  RSE are encouraged to discuss this with the RSHE lead and/or the Headteacher.

Advising Parents / Carers:

Parents / carers will be advised about forthcoming sex education lessons. Further details of the  lessons will be provided to parents upon request and they will be invited to view any materials  before the lesson.

7.4 Pupils

Pupils are expected to engage fully in RSHE and, when discussing issues related to RSHE, treat  others with respect and sensitivity.

8. Parents’ right to withdraw

We wish to build a positive and supporting relationship with the parents of children at our school  through mutual understanding, trust and cooperation. In order to promote this we:

● Inform parents about the school’s RSE policy and practice;

● Answer any questions that parents / carers may have about the RSE of their child;
● Take seriously any issue that parents / carers raise with teachers or governors about this  policy or the arrangements for RSE in the school;

● Parents do not have the right to withdraw their children from relationships education.  Parents have the right to withdraw their children from the non-statutory/non-science  components of sex education within RSE. However, this rarely happens, by working in  partnership with parents they recognise the importance of this aspect of their child’s education.

Requests for withdrawal should be put in writing using the form found in Appendix 3 of this  policy and addressed to the headteacher, Mrs L Wilmer.

Alternative work will be given to pupils who are withdrawn from sex education. A register of any such pupils will be kept and distributed to all teachers involved.

9. Training

Staff are trained on the delivery of RSHE as part of their professional development and it is  included in our continuing professional development calendar.

The school will access external services, such as school nurses, to provide support and training  to staff teaching RSE if necessary.

10. Monitoring Arrangements

The delivery of RSE is monitored by the PSHE/RSE lead through:

● Lesson visits;

● Pupil voice;

● Lesson plans;

● Book looks;

Pupils’ development in RSHE is monitored by class teachers as part of our internal assessment  systems.

This policy will be reviewed by the RSHE lead every 3 years or before if necessary. At  every review, the policy will be approved by the governing board.

11. Linked Policies

In conjunction with this policy, please also see:

● Behaviour policy;

● Safeguarding policy;

● Anti-bullying policy;

● Science policy;

● P.E. policy;

● R.E. policy

Appendix 1: Overview of Curriculum

RSHE scheme of work

Year group

Term

Topic/theme details

Nursery

Autumn

To learn about themselves; what they like and dislike. To learn about how they feel.

To learn about why they are special and special people /  things in their lives.

To learn about looking after myself, others and my  environment.

Nursery

Spring

To learn about how we are similar and how we are  different.

To learn that our bodies need exercise and sleep.

To learn that to achieve and succeed we have to keep  trying.

Nursery

Summer

To recognise people who help to keep us safe. To learn how to stay safe indoors and outdoors. To learn what is safe to go into our bodies.

To learn how my body is growing and changing.

Reception

Autumn

To learn about what makes me happy and my friends  happy.

To recognise what is important to me.

To recognise special people in my life and to learn about  special people in other people’s lives.

To learn about looking after people.

To learn about how we can care for our environment

Reception

Spring

To learn about how each family is different and how they  are the same.

To learn about why we need to care for each other. To learn about not giving up when things go wrong.

To learn about the importance of healthy eating, exercise  and sleep.

Reception

Summer

To learn about what is safe to go into my body – including medicines.

To learn how to stay safe inside and outside.

To learn about keeping safe online and who I can go to if  I need help.

To learn about the life stages of plants, animals and  humans.

To learn about where babies come from.

To learn about main body parts and getting bigger.

Year 1

Autumn

To learn about why we have rules.

To learn about our feelings and other people’s feelings.

To learn that we all have special people in our lives.

To learn about basic hygiene routines and why these are  important.

To learn about the importance of money and what it is  used for.

To learn about basic first aid.

Year 1

Spring

To learn about how our behaviour affects other people.

To understand what is fair and unfair.

To learn about the importance of healthy eating.

To learn about basic hygiene rules.

To learn that we keep going even if we’re struggling.

Year 1

Summer

To learn why it is so important to be healthy, get exercise  and get enough sleep.

To learn about what happens inside of my body and how  we change and grow.

To learn about what makes me sad and happy,  comfortable and uncomfortable.

To learn about the importance of not keeping secrets that  make me feel uncomfortable, anxious or afraid.

To learn about certain parts of my body are private. To  use the correct biological words for these parts of the  body for boys and girls.

Year 2

Autumn

To recognise your own and other people’s feelings. To learn how to deal with feelings of conflict and anger.

To learn to listen to other people’s points of view and play co-operatively.

To understand what bullying is and why it is wrong.  

To learn about what to do if teasing or bullying is  

happening.

To learn the importance of saving money for something  

special; the importance of money.

.

Year 2

Spring

To learn to respect the needs of ourselves and of others. To learn about the importance of being kind to people.

To learn how to deal with issues if something goes  wrong.

To learn about the importance of hygiene and how to  keep different parts of our body clean.

To learn about what different parts of my body do.

Year 2

Summer

To learn about how to be safe and what to do if we don’t  feel safe.

To learn about what we like and what we don’t like. To  know how to say ’No’ if we don’t like something or  something makes me feel uncomfortable.

To learn that some secrets should never be kept and that  we must tell someone who we feel safe with.

To recognise changes in our bodies and understand what  parts of our body should remain private and how we keep  them private.

To learn about basic first aid.

Year 3

Autumn

To learn about the importance of rules.

To learn how to look after each other, animals, and our  environment.

To learn how to solve a problem / respect a difference of opinion between friends.

To learn about the importance of choosing the right thing  

to do even if friends tell us something different.

To learn how to keep each other safe as well as myself.

To learn about money and we earn money in order to buy things

Year 3

Spring

To learn about rules, rights and responsibilities.

To learn about the ways in which rules and laws keep  people safe.

To learn about our community and why it is important. To learn about the importance of living a healthy lifestyle.

To learn about and respect that each of us is different  and we have different relationships at home. We are all  different.

To learn how to respect that we may each have different  opinions.

Year 3

Summer

To learn about keeping safe online.

To learn about the dangers of takings drugs (alcohol and  cigarettes)

To learn about changes in my body.

To learn the concept of keeping something confidential or  secret.

To recognise that some secrets makes us feel happy and  some secrets make us feel anxious or afraid.

To learn the concept of keeping something confidential or  secret.

To learn about the importance of keeping personal  boundaries and the right to privacy.

Year 4

Autumn

To recognise that different people can have different  feelings in the same situation.

To recognise when we may have to say ‘No’ to a friend.

To learn how to solve conflict amongst themselves and  their peers.

To learn about everyone has human rights (and that  children have their own set of human rights – UN  

declaration of the Rights of the Child)

To recognise that everyone can make a difference within a democratic process. 

To learn about taxes and which services they pay for.

Year 4

Spring

To learn that there are difference and similarities  between all of us but to understand that everyone is  equal.

To learn what is meant by ‘stereotypes’.

To learn about the impact of the choices we make both in  school and out of school.

To learn the importance of respecting others, even when  they are very different from them (for example, physically,  in character, personality or backgrounds), or make  different choices or have different preferences or beliefs.

Year 4

Summer

To recognise dangers, risks and hazards with regards to  medicines / drugs both to themselves and to other people  who may take them. 

To be able to recognise who to trust and who not to trust  and how to judge when a friendship is making them feel  unhappy or uncomfortable. 

To learn how to manage conflict including how to  manage these situations and how to seek help or advice  from others, if needed. 

To learn that different situations will make us feel  differently and we need to learn how to manage those  feelings. 

To know who to report concerns to regarding concerns at  home, at school, online and within their community.

 

Year 5

Autumn

To learn how to work collaboratively and cooperatively.

To be able to compromise and negotiate in order to find solutions to difficult situations.

To recognise their own emotions and how to look after themselves as well as being aware of other people’s emotions and that everyone is as important as each other.

To learn and explore how the media portray different information.

To know that there is fact and that there is  

an opinion.

To recognise the role of the volunteers in the community and how this makes people in the community feel.

To learn about money with regards to loans, debts and credits. 

To learn why people may struggle with money and paying for bills such as rent/mortgages. 

To underhand what local councils and councillors are and how they look after their community.

Year 5

Spring

To recognise the benefits of living in a diverse  community.

To recognise the importance of our school community.

To recognise the importance of respecting people of  different faiths, backgrounds and beliefs. To learn that  we are all equally important.

To appreciate difference and diversity across the  community, country and the world.

To recognise the consequences of positive and negative  behaviour on themselves and others.

To learn about the benefits of a balanced lifestyle on our  mental wellbeing, health and on our body.

To recognise that the media don’t always reflect real life,  reality and how people feel about themselves.

To learn about basic first aid.

Year 5

Summer

To recognise that all medicines are drugs but not all drugs are medicines.

To learn that pressure to behave in an unacceptable,  

unhealthy or risky way can come from a variety of sources, including people they know, friends and the media. 

To recognise and learn how to deal with online bullying and face to face bullying. (either with themselves or with someone they know) 

To learn about and recognise the changes in their body as they grow through puberty and that this may also result in changes in their emotions. 

To learn the correct biological names and terminology for their body parts and the changes in their body.

Year 6

Autumn

To learn the importance of self-respect and respecting  others.

To learn how to manage complex or conflicting emotions.  To develop strategies for managing risk.

To learn how to resist unhelpful pressure and ask for help.

To learn how to recognise and describe the range and  intensity of their feelings to others.

To learn about the benefits of saving money.

To understand the importance of having a job and how  finances play an important part in people’s lives.

To understand what elections are and how rules and  laws are made.

Year 6

Spring

To respect each other’s differences.

To learn how to deal with bullying.

To learn how to challenge stereotypes and the correct  use of the terms sex, gender identity and sexual  orientation.

To understand how to live a healthy lifestyle which  impacts positively on their health, body and well-being.

To recognise who can help us to live a healthy lifestyle           and how we can help others to do the same.

To learn about basic first aid.

Year 6

Summer

To learn about internet safety and to think before you  click. (regarding photos and information about yourself  and others)

To learn about how drugs are categorised in this country.

To recognise that the media can reinforce stereotypes, including gender stereotypes.

To learn that human rights overrule any beliefs, ideas or  practices that harm others.

Harmful practices (such as FGM and forced marriage)  are against British law (illegal) and in contradiction to  human rights.

To learn about the changes which puberty brings to allow  sexual reproduction to occur.

To know that there are a variety of ways in which sperm can  fertilise the egg to create a baby.

To know how a baby is made and grows. Roles and  responsibilities of parents and carers.

To know the legal age of consent and what it means.

To recognise that viruses and bacteria can be spread  unless hygiene and safety rules are followed, such as HIV.

Appendix 2: By the end of Key Stage 2 pupils should know:

Topic

Pupils should know:

Families and  people who  

care about me

· That families are important for children growing up because they  can give love, security and stability.

· The characteristics of healthy family life, commitment to each  other, including in times of difficulty, protection and care for children  and other family members, the importance of spending time together  and sharing each other’s lives.

· That others’ families, either in school or in the wider world,  sometimes look different from their family, but that they should respect  those differences and know that other children’s families are also  characterised by love and care.

· That stable, caring relationships, which may be of different types,  are at the heart of happy families, and are important for children’s  security as they grow up.

· How to recognise if family relationships are making them feel  unhappy or unsafe, and how to seek help or advice from others if  needed.

Caring  

friendships

· How important friendships are in making us feel happy and  secure, and how people choose and make friends.

· The characteristics of friendships, including mutual respect,  truthfulness, trustworthiness, loyalty, kindness, generosity, trust,  sharing interests and experiences and support with problems and  difficulties.

· That healthy friendships are positive and welcoming towards  others, and do not make others feel lonely or excluded.

· That most friendships have ups and downs, and that these can  often be worked through so that the friendship is repaired or even  strengthened, and that resorting to violence is never right.

· How to recognise who to trust and who not to trust, how to judge  when a friendship is making them feel unhappy or uncomfortable, managing conflict, how to manage these situations and how to seek  help or advice from others, if needed.

Respectful  

relationships

· The importance of respecting others, even when they are very  different from them (for example, physically, in character, personality  or backgrounds), or make different choices or have different  preferences or beliefs.

· Practical steps they can take in a range of different contexts to  improve or support respectful relationships.

· The conventions of courtesy and manners.

· The importance of self-worth and how this links to their own  happiness.

· That in school and in wider society they can expect to be treated  with respect by others, and that in turn they should show due respect  to others, including those in positions of authority.

· About different types of bullying (including cyberbullying), the  impact of bullying, responsibilities of bystanders (primarily reporting  bullying to an adult) and how to get help.

· What a stereotype is, and how stereotypes can be unfair, negative  or destructive.

· The importance of permission-seeking and giving in relationships  with friends, peers and adults.

Online relationships

· That people sometimes behave differently online, including by  pretending to be someone they are not.

· That the same principles apply to online relationships as to face-to  face relationships, including the importance of respect for others online including when we are anonymous.

· The rules and principles for keeping safe online, how to recognise  risks, harmful content and contact, and how to report them.

· How to critically consider their online friendships and sources of  information including awareness of the risks associated with people  they have never met.

· How information and data is shared and used online.

Being safe

· What sorts of boundaries are appropriate in friendships with peers  and others (including in a digital context).

· About the concept of privacy and the implications of it for both  children and adults; including that it is not always right to keep secrets  if they relate to being safe.

· That each person’s body belongs to them, and the differences  between appropriate and inappropriate or unsafe physical, and other,  contact.

· How to respond safely and appropriately to adults they may  encounter (in all contexts, including online) whom they do not know.

· How to recognise and report feelings of being unsafe or feeling  bad about any adult.

· How to ask for advice or help for themselves or others, and to  keep trying until they are heard.

· Where to get advice e.g. family, school and/or other sources.


Appendix 3: Parent Form: withdrawal from sex education within RSE

To be completed by parents

Name of child

Class

Name of parent

Date

Reason for withdrawing from sex education within relationships and sex education

Any other information you would like the school to consider

Parent  signature

To be completed by the school

Agreed actions  from discussion  with parents